Dear Married Man: Keep Your Distance!

Atlanta, Georgia (jacked via CNN) — My friend posted this message as her Facebook status update: Maybe it’s just me, but I am extremely uncomfortable with any married man calling me “just to say hi.” Not good! Respect your wife!
My initial response was this has to be a joke … right? Then the comments started flying with woman after woman not only liking the status update but also telling their own tales of married men trying to befriend single women.
The biggest complaint from most women was that lately some married men have been living double lives. In social settings, these married men partied all night long, had lingering conversations and exchanges with single women all under the guise of business for their charity or event.
These married men are the “undercover agents” of the single scene. They purposely put themselves in situations where they can infiltrate the single female scene all the while wearing their wedding bands to make these women feel safe.
One woman said it best on my friend’s Facebook comment thread: “If a married man is trying to cultivate a friendship with me and I don’t know his wife, he’s out of line and I want nothing to do with him. The last thing I need is a woman looking at me sideways thinking I’m interested in her man. I’m too grown for that kind of drama.”
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