Valentine’s Day and the Mystery of Universal Cuteness
When I was younger, February 11th or 12th was like my personal day for breaking up with boyfriends. There was even a year or two with my boyfriend, Julian, when we briefly took a break around that time, or at least had drama. My personal drama calendar has left a bad taste in my mouth about Valentine’s Day. You know, I just hate that decision you have to make, either “girls night” or just hang out by yourself and give yourself the Independent Woman pep talk. Even though I have a perma-Valentine now, I still find the holiday a bit annoying.
But this year, the Million Person Project has helped change my tone and broaden my idea of Valentine’s Day.
Here is my deal. Ever since I was a little girl, I have been overcome and overwhelmed by the cuteness of other people. I’ve always thought my mom and dad are the cutest people in the universe, and don’t even get me started on my sister or Arley. But it really extends further out into the world. As a kid, I remember just wishing that people would pick me up and hug me so I could snuggle my head into them. I love how different people smell and how different people’s hands feel. As a kid, I was pretty lucky. I had bright white hair and a speech impediment, so generally people thought I was cute too and would swoop me up quite often.




There was a collective cringe in the room last night as activists and journalists listened to Obama’s closing press conference. There was no video, only audio, so you had to do something with your eyes. You could pretend to take notes on your laptop, but there was nothing to note. The speech was empty. As was the “deal.” You could do a slow pan across the room, but that would require making eye contact with people from other countries and there was an unsettling familiarity about being American with a leader failing the rest of the world…again. It would also require making eye contact with the kinds of Americans most responsible for our President’s world-changing election in the first place. So instead, I looked down.


